We may earn a commission from links on this page.Heading out to a dazzling restaurant for a lovely meal is certainly the traditional option for a memorable Valentines Day, but I've heard more complaints of plans gone awry rather than romantic stories. There are many stress points: reserving a table weeks in advance, unpredictable restaurant atmosphere, holiday price gouging, not to mention that you might get rushed out the door because the place is trying to turn over tables on a tight schedule. Luckily, eating out is hardly the only option for treating yourself (or your valentine) on February 14. Here are nine of my favorite alternatives to dining out at a restaurant for Valentines Day.Cook an at-home meal kit togetherCooking can be meditative solo activity, or a fun project to do with a companion. (Plus, you get to eat the project at the end). The beauty of a meal kit is that every step is mapped out, so even novice cooks have a fighting chance at making a restaurant-level meal, and the ingredients are portioned to the recipe, so if youre a once-a-week sort of cook, you dont end up with a fridge full of leftover ingredients destined for the trash. Tons of companies offer different types of kits for differing palates and varying interest levels. For those whod like to try cooking scallops for the first time, try Blue Apron. For a refreshing and satisfying dinner, try a sushi kit from Williams Sonoma.Dinner at the moviesAccording to the internet, dinner-and-a-movie is terrible and horrible for Valentines Day, and I agree. Why waste time doing two separate things when you can do them at once? The first time I set foot in an Alamo Drafthouse Cinema, I enjoyed a cocktail, a plate of buffalo cauliflower, and a pizza all while watching a movie. I've since deleted other normal movie theaters from my mind. Even if you dont have an Alamo Drafthouse nearby, select locations of AMC, Regal, and other theaters offer a dine-in movie experience. My advice, go see the latest weird horror movie, order some carbs, and get buzzed off a fruity cocktail.Make a charcuterie boardGrazing as a meal is a valid choice, and a selection of cured meats and aged cheeses might be all you need for a romantic Valentines Day. Harry and David offers many a meat and dip kit, that you can slice and arrange with your special salami. For those who dont enjoy indecisive moments in the wine store, try a kit that includes it already. Most of these kits include the pieces, but rarely are they presentation ready. Try your hand at artistically arranging the sliced meats, tapenade, and crackers, and get ready to snack for the evening. (Read here for more ways to give the gift of meat.)Hire a chefA restaurant date isnt in the cards, and youll be damned if you have to turn on the stove. Get a little bougie and hire a chef to come and cook for you. You can receive the ultimate food pampering without having to do any work yourself, so you can spend quality time with your valentine. There is a great range of pricing when it comes to bringing in a professional, so do a bit of research.You can cut costs by offering to gather the ingredients before they arrive, search for individual chefs who run their own catering, or try companies like Cozymeal. If your budget is real tight, hit up the local culinary school. Schools, like the Institute of Culinary Education, will offer job postings for their students to respond to for extra work and real-life experience. You can post the opportunity and rate, and see if you get any bites.Host a potluck with friendsValentine's day might be "special day" for couples or whatever, but if love is what you want to celebrate, why not gather your chosen family for a meal instead? Ask folks to bring a small side dish, warm up the air fryer with some of these recipes, batch a pink cocktail, and throw on a perfectly cheesy rom-com in the background. Whether it's one friend or 12, it'll be a truly memorable Valentine's Day. The dress code: sweatshirts and stretchy pants. Sign up for a cooking classFor more of a shared experience, sign up for a cooking class. You get the guidance of a chef instructor, top-notch ingredients, and maybe youll even learn something new. One-time classes, especially themed ones, are usually fun, light-hearted, and low-pressure events. Its an opportunity to work as a team with your significant other, or be passive aggressive in public if thats your thing. Introverts, worry not, you can even keep things cozy at home and do an online cooking class instead. This isnt a cooking competition show (unless you want it to be) but you will get a food prize at the end.Do a wine tasting and pairingWine used to be grapes, and grapes are food, so you can do a wine tasting as your dinner with no argument from me. Fine, you can do a wine pairing; after all, wine tastes even better with snacks. It can also taste god-awful if you pair it wrong, and thats where the professionals come in. Check out your local wineries or wine stores to see if theyre hosting any Valentines Day tastings. (And again, similarly to cooking classes, you can do a virtual pairing class at home.)Make a tinned fish boardPreserved fish is having a moment (or, ya know, a couple centuries). Why leave all the fun to cured meats? Go to the local fishmonger for advice, raid the canned fish shelves of your supermarket, or order a spread of specialty sardines, cockles, mackerel, and salmon to put together your own board. I respect keeping things protein-forward, but add a smattering of crackers, bread, and vinegar-pickled items to keep the oils from overwhelming your palate.Order delivery (It needed to be said.)At the risk of seeming obvious, ordering delivery needs to be on this list. Its the go-to option because its brilliant. You pay a fair price for a host of people to create and deliver exactly what you want, straight to your door. No need to make reservations, unearth charcuterie boards, see other people, or even put on pants. To some folks, nothing is more romantic than that. Some date night-worthy restaurants even offer delivery so even if you couldn't get a reservation you can still have a beautiful, perfectly prepared, three-course Valentines dinner. Be a real hero, and use a service like Goldbelly to secretly have your partner's favorite NYC ramen shipped to them (even though you both live in LA now).