• On this day: February 9
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    February 9: Feast day of Apollonia in Roman Catholicism and Eastern OrthodoxyJohn Quincy Adams1825 After no candidate received a majority of electoral votes in the previous year's presidential election, the United States House of Representatives chose John Quincy Adams (pictured) as president in a contingent election.1945 World WarII: Allied aircraft unsuccessfully attacked a German destroyer in Frde Fjord, Norway.1950 U.S. senator Joseph McCarthy accused 205 employees of the State Department of being communists, sparking a period of strong anti-communist sentiment known as McCarthyism.1975 The spacecraft and crew of the Soviet Soyuz 17 mission returned to earth after 29 days in orbit at the Salyut 4 station.2020 Japanese figure skater Yuzuru Hanyu won the Four Continents Championships to become the only man to complete a Super Slam.Adele Spitzeder (b.1832)Ella D. Barrier (d.1945)Vladimir Guerrero (b.1975)Margareta Hallin (d.2020)More anniversaries: February 8February 9February 10ArchiveBy emailList of days of the yearAbout
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  • Meta AI Introduces ParetoQ: A Unified Machine Learning Framework for Sub-4-Bit Quantization in Large Language Models
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    As deep learning models continue to grow, the quantization of machine learning models becomes essential, and the need for effective compression techniques has become increasingly relevant. Low-bit quantization is a method that reduces model size while attempting to retain accuracy. Researchers have been determining the best bit-width for maximizing efficiency without compromising performance. Various studies have explored different bit-width settings, but conflicting conclusions have arisen due to the absence of a standardized evaluation framework. This ongoing pursuit influences the development of large-scale artificial intelligence models, determining their feasibility for deployment in memory-constrained environments.A major challenge in low-bit quantization is identifying the optimal trade-off between computational efficiency & model accuracy. The debate over which bit-width is most effective remains unresolved, with some arguing that 4-bit quantization provides the best balance, while others claim that 1.58-bit models can achieve comparable results. However, prior research has lacked a unified methodology to compare different quantization settings, leading to inconsistent conclusions. This knowledge gap complicates establishing reliable scaling laws in low-bit precision quantization. Moreover, achieving stable training in extremely low-bit settings poses a technical hurdle, as lower-bit models often experience significant representational shifts compared to higher-bit counterparts.Quantization approaches vary in their implementation and effectiveness. After training a model in full precision, post-training quantization (PTQ) applies quantization, making it easy to deploy but prone to accuracy degradation at low bit-widths. Quantization-aware training (QAT), on the other hand, integrates quantization into the training process, allowing models to adapt to low-bit representations more effectively. Other techniques, such as learnable quantization and mixed-precision strategies, have been explored to fine-tune the balance between accuracy and model size. However, these methods lack a universal framework for systematic evaluation, making it difficult to compare their efficiency under different conditions.Researchers at Meta have introduced ParetoQ, a structured framework designed to unify the assessment of sub-4-bit quantization techniques. This framework allows rigorous comparisons across different bit-width settings, including 1-bit, 1.58-bit, 2-bit, 3-bit, and 4-bit quantization. By refining training schemes and bit-specific quantization functions, ParetoQ achieves improved accuracy and efficiency over previous methodologies. Unlike prior works that independently optimize for specific bit levels, ParetoQ establishes a consistent evaluation process that objectively compares quantization trade-offs.ParetoQ employs an optimized quantization-aware training strategy to minimize accuracy loss while maintaining model compression efficiency. The framework refines bit-specific quantization functions and tailors training strategies for each bit-width. A critical finding from this study is the distinct learning transition observed between 2-bit and 3-bit quantization. Models trained at 3-bit precision and higher maintain representation similarities with their original pre-trained distributions, while models trained at 2-bit or lower experience drastic representational shifts. To overcome this challenge, the framework systematically optimizes the quantization grid, training allocation, and bit-specific learning strategies.Extensive experiments confirm the superior performance of ParetoQ over existing quantization methods. A ternary 600M-parameter model developed using ParetoQ outperforms the previous state-of-the-art ternary 3B-parameter model in accuracy while utilizing only one-fifth of the parameters. The study demonstrates that 2-bit quantization achieves an accuracy improvement of 1.8 percentage points over a comparable 4-bit model of the same size, establishing its viability as an alternative to conventional 4-bit quantization. Further, ParetoQ enables a more hardware-friendly implementation, with optimized 2-bit CPU kernels achieving higher speed and memory efficiency compared to 4-bit quantization. The experiments also reveal that ternary, 2-bit and 3-bit quantization models achieve better accuracy-size trade-offs than 1-bit and 4-bit quantization, reinforcing the significance of sub-4-bit approaches.The findings of this study provide a strong foundation for optimizing low-bit quantization in large language models. By introducing a structured framework, the research effectively addresses the challenges of accuracy trade-offs and bit-width optimization. The results indicate that while extreme low-bit quantization is viable, 2-bit and 3-bit quantization currently offer the best balance between performance and efficiency. Future advancements in hardware support for low-bit computation will further enhance the practicality of these techniques, enabling more efficient deployment of large-scale machine learning models in resource-constrained environments.Check outthePaper.All credit for this research goes to the researchers of this project. Also,dont forget to follow us onTwitterand join ourTelegram ChannelandLinkedIn Group. Dont Forget to join our75k+ ML SubReddit. NikhilNikhil is an intern consultant at Marktechpost. He is pursuing an integrated dual degree in Materials at the Indian Institute of Technology, Kharagpur. Nikhil is an AI/ML enthusiast who is always researching applications in fields like biomaterials and biomedical science. With a strong background in Material Science, he is exploring new advancements and creating opportunities to contribute.Nikhilhttps://www.marktechpost.com/author/nikhil0980/Meet ZebraLogic: A Comprehensive AI Evaluation Framework for Assessing LLM Reasoning Performance on Logic Grid Puzzles Derived from Constraint Satisfaction Problems (CSPs)Nikhilhttps://www.marktechpost.com/author/nikhil0980/Princeton University Researchers Introduce Self-MoA and Self-MoA-Seq: Optimizing LLM Performance with Single-Model EnsemblesNikhilhttps://www.marktechpost.com/author/nikhil0980/NYU Researchers Introduce WILDCHAT-50M: A Large-Scale Synthetic Dataset for Efficient LLM Post-TrainingNikhilhttps://www.marktechpost.com/author/nikhil0980/This AI Paper from Meta Introduces Diverse Preference Optimization (DivPO): A Novel Optimization Method for Enhancing Diversity in Large Language Models [Recommended] Join Our Telegram Channel
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  • How to Watch the Super Bowl Live for Free in 2025: Chiefs vs. Eagles
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    Super Bowl 59 is almost here, and it has all of the intrigue you'd expect from the biggest live event of the year. It's the Kansas City Chiefs vs. the Philadelphia Eagles battling it out for the title. While this is a rematch of Super Bowl 57, it is also the chance for the Chiefs to win a third consecutive Super Bowl Championship.The Kansas City Chiefs, led by popular quarterback Patrick Mahomes and tight end Travis Kelce, are favored to win going into the event. All eyes are on them this year as they hope to defend their legacy. The drama kicks off on Sunday, February 9.When Does the Super Bowl Start in 2025?Super Bowl 59 starts on Sunday, February 9 at 6:30pm ET / 3:30pm PT. The big game is taking place in the Caesars Superdome in New Orleans, the home of the Saints. The Super Bowl pregame show will begin much earlier, so you can tune in starting at 1pm ET / 10am PT for the commentary.What about the Halftime Show?If you don't care about the actual game and just want to tune in for Kendrick Lamar's Halftime Show, there is unfortunately not an exact time it takes place. That being said, the first half of the game usually takes around two hours, which would put the halftime show start time somewhere around 8 or 8:30pm ET.How to Watch the Super Bowl LiveSuper Bowl 59 will be airing on Fox in 2025. The Fox Network is available on different TV channels depending on what U.S. city you're located in. To find out what channel Fox is actually on in your location, ou can use this helpful guide that lists local channels by city. If your TV doesn't have a built-in antenna, you may want to invest in a good external TV antenna, or check out where to watch the game online below.How to watch online for freeRequires Sign-inTubiWatch the Super Bowl for free.See it at TubiThere are a few different ways to watch the Super Bowl online for free, but the easiest option is Tubi.com. Tubi is owned by Fox and is one of the better free streaming services. You don't need to pay for a subscription; you just need to make an account and you can stream the event for free. It also includes all of the same Super Bowl commercials as the main broadcast, so you won't miss out on those either. Pro tip: If you own a Meta Quest 3, you can watch the Super Bowl by navigating to the Tubi app within your VR headset.Alternative ways to watch the big game for free are utilizing free trials for popular live TV services. This includes FuboTV, which currently offers a seven-day free trial, as well as DirecTV Stream, which has a five-day free trial for new subscribers.How to Watch Live in the UK for FreeIf you live across the pond, you'll be happy to know that Super Bowl 59 will be airing live on ITV1 this year. You can also stream it live onlie via ITVX if you plan on watching from your phone, tablet, or computer.Beyond that, you could make use of one of the better VPNs for streaming to log in to Tubi outside of the U.S. and stream it online. We recommend ExpressVPN for all-things streaming in this regard.Our Top PickExpressVPNSpeedy VPN with unlimited bandwidth and a 30-day money-back guarantee.See it at ExpressVPN
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  • Here are three big iPhone SE 4 rumors you may have missed
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    Apples next generation iPhone SE may debut as early as next week. The device is rumored to provide the design language of the iPhone 14, with USB-C, an A18 chip with Apple Intelligence, and more. Youve likely heard all of those headlining features already, but there are some other substantial rumors that may have gone under the radar for you, which well be recapping today.New name?One interesting rumor for the iPhone SE 4 is that it might have a new name entirely: iPhone 16E.Aligning the iPhone SE with the rest of the iPhone naming lineup would certainly be great for clarity. Itd also be a convenient way for Apple to introduce the new device at a somewhat higher price tag than the previous iPhone SE.This rumor has only come from a couple sub-optimal sources, so take it with a grain of salt, but Id still keep it in mind.48MP cameraAs weve exclusively reported on 9to5Mac, iPhone SE 4 will equip a 48MP main camera sensor, the same one as the iPhone 15 and iPhone 15 Plus. For one, this just means improved photo quality over the iPhone 14 (and previous generation SE), which is always a great thing.However, it also means one thing: 2x optical zoom.Ever since Apple introduced 48MP sensors, starting with iPhone 14 Pro, its offered a feature that allows users to crop into the middle 12MP of that frame, allowing for an optical quality shot. Whether or not you agree with that being optical quality is up to you, but nonetheless itll be a feature on iPhone SE 4, in all likelihood.Apples first modemBack in 2019, Apple acquired Intels modem business. Since then, theyve been working to build modems in house, in a move to transition away from Qualcomm.With the new iPhone SE, those new modems should finally make their appearance.This modem isnt expected to be anything too fancy, which is why it wont be in most of the iPhone 17 lineup. Nonetheless, itll be cool to see, and its certainly a cost savings for Apple, at least on a per-unit basis. Itll certainly be Apples largest effort to have deeper vertical integration since the company transitioned to Apple Silicon on the Mac in 2020.My favorite iPhone accessories on Amazon:Follow Michael:X/Twitter,Bluesky,InstagramAdd 9to5Mac to your Google News feed. FTC: We use income earning auto affiliate links. More.Youre reading 9to5Mac experts who break news about Apple and its surrounding ecosystem, day after day. Be sure to check out our homepage for all the latest news, and follow 9to5Mac on Twitter, Facebook, and LinkedIn to stay in the loop. Dont know where to start? Check out our exclusive stories, reviews, how-tos, and subscribe to our YouTube channel
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  • Best Speakerphone in 2025 for Working From Home
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    Our Experts Written by David Carnoy Our expert, award-winning staff selects the products we cover and rigorously researches and tests our top picks. If you buy through our links, we may get a commission. Reviews ethics statement How we test Executive Editor David Carnoy has been a leading member of CNET's Reviews team since 2000. He covers the gamut of gadgets and is a notable reviewer of mobile accessories and portable audio products, including headphones and speakers. He's also an e-reader and e-publishing expert as well as the author of the novels Knife Music, The Big Exit and Lucidity. All the titles are available as Kindle, iBooks, Kobo e-books and audiobooks. Expertise Headphones, Bluetooth speakers, mobile accessories, Apple, Sony, Bose, e-readers, Amazon, glasses, ski gear, iPhone cases, gaming accessories, sports tech, portable audio, interviews, audiophile gear, PC speakers Credentials Maggie Award for Best Regularly Featured Web Column/Consumer See full bio What to consider Budget More premium models tend to cost $200 or more but plenty of good options are available in the $80-$150 range. How do you intend to use it? If you plan on using your speakerphone with a computer, think about getting a model that includes a USB Bluetooth dongle. How many people are talking? More premium speakerphones are more suitable for conference calls in larger rooms where multiple people are speaking at the same time. Portabilty Take into account the size of the speakerphone if you plan on carrying it with you for mobile use. Return policy It's always good to buy at a retailer that has a good return policy, in case you have buyer's remorse. Table of Contents While you can make do using your phone for at-home conference calls, you can greatly improve the sound quality of your meetings with a speakerphone. When determining the best speakerphone we examined how each model reduces background noise, improves call quality, what connectivity options it has and more. Many models have a wired USB connection to plug into a PC or Mac and many also have Bluetooth connection. Some have a UC (Universal Communication) that will better connect to a PC wirelessly. While you could just consider getting one of the best headsets for working from home, you may not want to have to wear something like that all day, so a good speakerphone is an excellent alternative. Most of these models are compact enough to be used at home and on the go. Our Picks Best new midrange speakerphone Jabra Speak2 55 View details $139 at Amazon View details Best for under $100 eMeet Luna Plus View details $100 at Amazon View details Flagship Beyerdynamic speakerphone Beyerdynamic Space Max View details $380 at B&H Photo-Video View details Jabra's new premium speakerphone Jabra Speak2 75 View details $269 at Amazon View details Versatile personal speakerphone Beyerdynamic Space View details $113 at Amazon View details Top value speakerphone Anker PowerConf View details $130 at Amazon View details Midrange speakerphone from Poly Poly Sync 20 Plus View details $132 at Amazon View details Midrange speakerphone from Anker Anker PowerConf S500 View details $200 at Amazon View details Best cheap speakerphone eMeet M0 Plus View details $68 at Amazon View details Top Bluetooth speaker that doubles as a speakerphone Bang & Olufsen Beosound A1 2nd Gen View details $299 at Amazon View details Previous generation midrange favorite speakerphone Jabra Speak 510 View details $92 at Amazon View details Premium speakerphone for less than $200 eMeet M3 View details $200 at Amazon View details Compact and lightweight Cyber Acoustics Essential Speakerphone SP-2000 View details $70 at Amazon View details Best new personal speakerphone AnkerWork S600 (Update: Unavailable) View details $190 at Amazon View details Table of Contents What's the best overall speakerphone?Choosing one model as the best speakerphone overall is challenging, but certain models stand out from the pack, which is why they're at the top of this list. These include the Jabra Speak2 55 and Speak2 75, as well as the Beyerdynamic Space Max and AnkerWork S600, the mos
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  • Gen Z nihilism over Chinese tech fears shows gulf with Washington
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    US lawmakers on Thursday said they planned to introduce a bipartisan bill to ban Chinese AI startup DeepSeeks chatbot from government-owned devices, citing national security concerns, in a move that echoed one of Congress first pushes against TikTok two years ago.However, younger generations in the US appear unfazed by the debate over security threats posed by Chinese-owned tech, with app downloads of TikTok, RedNote, and DeepSeek soaring among Gen Z users.TikToks anticipated shutdown in January prompted thousands of TikTok refugees to flock to Chinese alternative Xiahohongshu, referred to as Rednote in English. Many joked they were Chinese spies on a mission to troll the US government a reference to fears over Beijings surveillance of users via the app.ADA similar dynamic is playing out around DeepSeek; it is in the crosshairs of several governments around the world, though some officials and experts claim that data security fears are overblown. More than three-quarters of US downloads of DeepSeeks chatbot since Jan. 15 were by users aged 18-34, according to data from market intelligence firm AppMagic shared with Semafor.Its a post-Snowden and post-WikiLeaks generation that throws its hands up in the air and says, we dont care about the Chinese spy, everyone has our data, Elizabeth Ingleson, an international history professor at the London School of Economics and Political Science told Semafor.ADSome analysts have suggested the start of a new Cold War between the US and China, but what Ingleson described as Gen Zs nihilism suggests a very different sort of relationship between public opinion and policymakers, where government attempts to sow fear dont resonate in the way they have historically.
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  • Kanye West And The Dark Side Of The Attention Economy
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    INGLEWOOD, CALIFORNIA - MARCH 14: Rapper Kanye West performs onstage during the "Vultures 1" ... [+] playback concert during Rolling Loud 2024 the at Hollywood Park Grounds on March 14, 2024 in Inglewood, California. (Photo by Scott Dudelson/Getty Images)Getty ImagesKanye West is at it again. Since his appearance at the Grammys last Sunday, the rapperwho now goes by Yehas been wreaking havoc across social media, picking up petty squabbles on Instagram and spewing nonsense on X.Thats nothing new for West, but it yet again underscores the ugliest facets of the attention economy and the social media outrage machine.Feeding The Outrage MachineIt all began last Sunday at the Grammys where West was accompanied by his wife Bianca Censori, who wore a provocative see-through dress which made her appear almost completely nude.The dress instantly became the talk of the townand the internet hasnt been able to stop yapping about it. Indeed, West was particularly proud of that, claiming in a post on Instagram that Censori was the most Googled person at the awards.The claim is dubious, but thats besides the point. In the attention economy, all that matters is that people talk about itand West has been a master of feeding the outrage machine. Hes not the only one either.Rage-baitingputting out intentionally incendiary content to drive engagementhas turned into a common social media growth hacking tactic for a slew of content creators in recent years.MORE FOR YOUWest is symptomatic of the dangers of the social media outrage machine. Over the past couple of days, the rapper has been calling for the release of Sean Diddy Combswhos currently facing sex trafficking chargesfrom federal prison, ranting about how Jewish people cant be trusted and praising Hitler.Wests bizarre comments have drawn considerable amount of pushback, including a condemnation from the American Jewish Committee calling on the entertainment industry to disavow the rapper for his blatant hatred.Still, Wests incendiary posts have attracted millions of views across social media platforms, with multiple aggregation accounts reposting them to further farm engagement.The rappers unending tiradesranging from digs at comedian Dave Chappelle to insults aimed at former assistant suing him for sexual harassmenthave also inspired a stream of memes, one of which was reposted by Elon Musk himself.The Vicious Cycle Of The Attention EconomyThats where the problem with the attention economy lies. Outrage drives engagement, but engagement commands attentionand when attention is the currency, outrage becomes the fuel that keeps the attention economy going.Thats not to say that outrage cant be the catalyst for important conversations. It certainly can and does. But for every nuanced conversation, theres a current of forgettable gibberish designed solely with the purpose of driving engagement.Few of these conversations leave lasting impact. Instead, we harp on the next outrageous thing and simply move on.Then rinse and repeatand the outrage machine keeps spinning.
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  • UFC 314 Card Update: New High-Stakes Fight Added To Miami PPV
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    SYDNEY, AUSTRALIA - FEBRUARY 06: UFC CEO Dana White is seen on stage during the UFC 312 press ... [+] conference at Qudos Bank Arena on February 06, 2025 in Sydney, Australia. (Photo by Jeff Bottari/Zuffa LLC)Zuffa LLCAnother fight has reportedly been added to the promising UFC 314 card, scheduled for April 12 at the Kaseya Center in Miami.According to Marcel Dorff of Tapology, the UFC has inked a flyweight battle between Sumudaerji and Mitch Raposo. Based on the way the card is shaping up, it looks like a fight that will land on the early prelims.That said, this fight could be wildly spirited because of the stakesboth men are likely fighting for their spots on the roster.UFC 314 - Win or Go HomeNEWARK, NEW JERSEY - MAY 31: Mitch Raposo poses on the scale during the UFC 302 ceremonial weigh-in ... [+] at Prudential Center on May 31, 2024 in Newark, New Jersey. (Photo by Jeff Bottari/Zuffa LLC via Getty Images)Zuffa LLC via Getty ImagesRaposo has been given every opportunity to make a name for himself in the UFC, but he has come up short each time.He was a part of The Ultimate Fighter Season 29 in 2021, where he lost a unanimous decision to Liudvik Sholinian. Later that year, he was a participant on Dana Whites Contender Series, but he lost to Jake Hadley via second-round submission and failed to receive a contract.MORE FOR YOURaposo won four straight fights across Combat Zone, CES, and Cage Titans to earn another opportunity with the UFC in June 2024 at UFC 302. Unfortunately, he dropped a split decision to Andre Lima.Its probably not a stretch to say that if Raposo cannot beat Sumudaerjiespecially if hes finished or loses in a forgettable fighthe might be out of opportunities.As for Sumudaerji, he is hanging on by a thread in the UFC. The 29-year-old veteran from Tibet is on a three-fight losing streak. Most recently, he lost a unanimous decision to Charles Johnson in October 2024.LAS VEGAS, NEVADA - OCTOBER 18: Sumudaerji of China poses on the scale during the UFC Fight Night ... [+] weigh-in at UFC APEX on October 18, 2024 in Las Vegas, Nevada. (Photo by Jeff Bottari/Zuffa LLC)Zuffa LLCFour-fight losing streaks are almost always a death sentence in the UFCunless youre a legend like Tony Fergusonand a flyweight in that situation is even more vulnerable.Unless these two men deliver the Fight of the Night, theres a good chance the losers name will wind up being the subject of a Roster Watch post on X.UFC 314 Looks Excellent on PaperIf we can believe Bo Nickal, UFC 314 could be an epic card. According to the now No. 15-ranked middleweight, Ilia Topuria will defend his title against Alexander Volkanovski in the main event.Nickal has also said he wants to be on that card. If the chips fall into place, the lineup below could make up three-quarters of the eventand theres still the possibility of Jorge Masvidal making an Octagon return on this card.UFC 314 - Potential Fight Card(Rumored, Confirmed, and Possible Bouts)Ilia Topuria vs. Alexander Volkanovski 2 UFC Featherweight Championship RUMOREDAlexandre Pantoja vs. Kai Kara-France 2 UFC Flyweight ChampionshipGilbert Burns vs. Michael Morales WelterweightBo Nickal vs. ??? Middleweight POSSIBLENikita Krylov vs. Dominick Reyes Light HeavyweightVirna Jandiroba vs. Xiaonan Yan StrawweightChase Hooper vs. Jim Miller LightweightAlberto Montes vs. Roberto Romero (Weight Class Not Specified)Sumudaerji vs. Mitch Raposo FlyweightWith two rematches for UFC titles, a fast-rising contender like Morales, a resurgent contender like Reues, a title eliminator of sorts with Jandiroba and Yan, a potential war between Hooper and Miller and high-stakes battle between Sumudaerji and Raposo, UFC 314 could be one of the most well-balanced pay-per-views of the year.
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  • What the new field of womens neuroscience reveals about female brains
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    MindNeuroscientist-turned-entrepreneur Emil Radyt is using brain stimulation to explore how things like premenstrual syndrome and period pain impact the brain 5 February 2025 Becki GillThere is a huge hole in our understanding of the brain. A gaping, woman-shaped hole. While neuroscience has given us countless insights into how our minds work, history reveals a major oversight: most of those studies were performed on both men and women without considering that there might be differences between their brains. Only recently have we begun to realise the impact of this blind spot. For example, research has now shown that the brain is dramatically remodelled after giving birth, while another study found that the fluctuations of the menstrual cycle affect how the brain works.This oversight not only leaves us in the dark about how reproductive stages affect the brain, but calls into question many other, broader conclusions in neuroscience. It is also what inspired neuroscientist-turned-entrepreneur Emil Radyt to co-found a start-up called Samphire Neuroscience, where she is using non-invasive brain stimulation to transform our understanding of conditions that predominantly affect women, from premenstrual syndrome and period pain to postpartum depression. New Scientist asked Radyt how a better understanding of womens neuroscience could change the way we treat mental health issues and about the implications of this emerging field for everything we previously thought we knew about the human brain.Helen Thomson: You trained as a neuroscientist. How did you come to use that expertise to develop a brain stimulation device?Emil Radyt: Throughout my undergraduate degree, I worked as an emergency medic. I realised that about 50 per cent of our cases were actually psychiatric emergencies. You think about paramedics helping someone who is bleeding or having a heart attack, but I was seeing addiction, suicide,
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  • We met on a plane and married 9 months later. Ten years later, we are still together.
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    Christine Cole is a 50-year-old in Maryland who met her now husband on an airplane 10 years ago.She and her husband Jesse were married nine months after meeting.They recently reflected on their relationship as they walked through the same airport where they met.This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Christine Cole. It has been edited for length and clarity. Following the Christmas of 2014, I was heading back to Washington, D.C., after visiting my family in Idaho. I remember wanting to look cute for no particular reason for the trip home. I sat on the plane in my assigned seat, and this guy put his backpack in the overhead bin. He fumbled as he sat down next to me, accidentally elbowing me. He was overly apologetic, which turned into a conversation that lasted until my layover in Denver.My first impression of him was what a good smile he had.He openly shared about a lot that was going on in his life at the time, including finalizing a divorce. It seemed like a relief for him to have someone to talk to, to ask him questions.A little voice inside me said that this was a good guy. Turns out I wasn't wrong.I gave him my business card Before we got off the plane, I gave him my business card because I thought he could use a friend. As we waited to get off the plane, he asked where my next gate was, offering to walk with me through the airport to my gate. That's what he did, and it didn't feel at all weird to walk with this stranger through an airport.Before going to our separate gates, I gave him a quick hug. He said he would reach out.A couple of days later, I had an email from him reintroducing himself to make sure I had remembered him. I knew exactly who he was. He told me how he appreciated our conversation and how I had treated him with respect. He felt I had really listened to him. He wrote that he wanted to talk to me more but didn't want to disrupt my life.I remember thinking: "Oh you silly man. Don't you know that I want my life to be disrupted?"The first time we talked on the phone, we were on for 11 hoursI emailed him back, and we scheduled a time to talk on New Year's evening. We talked for 11 hours, never running out of things to discuss. We decided to continue to get to know one another through texting, emailing, and messaging that we wouldn't talk on the phone again or flirt until his divorce was finalized. We wanted to build a friendship.After his divorce was finalized in February 2014, he asked if we could video chat. When we did, he was at one of his favorite places on the Idaho Falls River. He asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes.Over the next weeks, we continued to get to know one another long-distance. I had fallen in love with him and wanted to marry him, something we were discussing at the time.He proposed and I proposed backWhen he visited me in March 2014, the first time seeing him since we'd first met, I introduced him to friends and family everyone liked him. He just kept showing me who he was. By the end of that trip, we were engaged.Not only did he propose to me, but I proposed back to him with a ring. That turned out to be really important to both of us. We both had an equal say in the relationship. It was the first time I felt on equal ground in a relationship.He went back to his job, which involved lots of travel.Three weeks later, he phoned to say he had been laid off par for the course in contracted work. He could either stay where he was or visit me in between jobs. I told him to come to me.While he was still with me, I got pneumonia. I was in hospital for nearly two weeks. Jesse rarely left the hospital, became a caretaker, and communicated with my parents twice daily. He showed his true colors.I left the hospital with a PICC line, unable to walk on my own. If he hadn't been there, I would have had to go into a rehabilitation center.During this time, we started planning a life together. He looked for jobs and found one in Maryland. We got an apartment in Calvert County. I was still weak, so Jesse organized everything with the house move. I only had energy for work and getting healthy again.We got married 9 months after meetingWe were married in September 2015, about nine months after meeting.Ten years after meeting, we are still married. Everything he said about who he was in those early days was true. He had been totally honest.We were just visiting my parents in Utah for Christmas. He was going on to work in Texas for a job while I headed back to Maryland. We were back at Denver airport again, 10 years later, walking through the same concourse together and remembering how special it felt when we first met and fell in love.No marriage is perfect. We all have our ups and downs. We work hard to treat each other with respect and have discussions instead of fights. I know some people say you shouldn't have to work on relationships. You absolutely should have to work at it, but I guess it doesn't necessarily have to feel like work if it's something you want to do.
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