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It all started with a job in Hamburg, where model Franzi Stegemann was posing for an optical campaign. Peter Bender was behind the camera. Neither of them ever could have known eight years ago that the gig would be the first encounter in what would later become an enduring relationship. After connecting on Instagram occasionally and seeing each other again a few times in Hamburg, they met up a year later at Benders place, an old house in the German town of Volxheim near Frankfurt. It was only a business lunch, after allor so thought Stegemann. Instead, she discovered a table set for twowith candles, nice wine, the works. Soon enough, it all clicked and that early sporadic contact turned into a long-distance relationship. Once the pandemic came along, Stegemann moved bit by bit from Hamburg out to Benders in the countryside. These days, the creative couple only get a dose of city life when theyre on the road for jobs. Because just having a good time is something the young couple manages to accomplish quite well here behind the old sandstone walls of the cozy manor.AD: Youve both now turned your backs on the city. What is it thats so nice about country life?Peter Bender: I think the nice thing is that you only have to do what you really want to. You can put the focus on whats important to you. For us, that means sports, visiting friends, working, and simply having a good time. Since youre not overwhelmed with all the options of a city, you automatically become more creative when it comes to how you spend your free time. Its a bit like childhood, really.Franzi Stegemann: And we get to have a dog totally guilt-free!Bad Kreuznach, Hamburg, Mainz, Frankfurt and now Volxheim: what drew you to this little village?Bender: I grew up in a nearby village in the Nahe wine-growing region. Living in Frankfurt, I quickly found city life too busy and hectic and I wanted to move back to the countryside. That was in 2017. So I placed a want ad online and this house came up. There were exactly two photos, but they were enough to sell me. One showed the beautiful tiles in front of the fireplace, and the other was a shot of the exposed gray steel beams.About a 35-minute drive from Mainz, Franzi Stegemann and Peter Benders home is in the center of Volxheim, a small village in the state of Rhineland-Palatinate.Bender: It was exactly the kind of house I always wanted. I was super grateful that our landlord Gtz, who is now one of our closest friends, had renovated so much beforehand to make it already perfect. Even though at age 25 I was still pretty young to move to a village where I didnt know anyone, it turned out pretty cool, despite the occasional loneliness.The house is really old. What do you know about its history?Bender: Theres a pretzel sign hanging above the entrance, so it might well have been a bakery at one time. But thats just a guess, and its possible that the previous owner put it there. Theres also the year of 1839, but here too we dont know whether that means the actual year of construction, since 1867 is also engraved on the gable. In any case, the house is at least 160 to 170 years old.The dining table and shelf are from an IKEA and Hay collaboration, with three Wishbone chairs by Carl Hansen & Sn. Image by photographer Gtz Diergarten, the couples close friend and landlord.But the house still seems to be in really good condition. Or, do appearances deceive?Bender: You can definitely tell that youre living in an old house. I bump into doors all the time. Im 63, but the door frames are only six-feet high. People were a bit shorter back then.Stegemann: You definitely always walk around the house bent half over! But yes, the age shows itself, especially as the power supply quickly overloads. All the floors are crooked, and the walls too. Thats why we dont have any large cabinets or anything like that against the wallsthey simply couldnt stand straight up.Bender: Crooked floorboards and skewed beams were used for reasons of construction cost. Things didnt get more out of whack over timethey were simply built that way.Despite the blemishes, whats the nice thing about living in an old house?Bender: The sounds! I love the creaking of our floorboards. And even in summer, the ground floor is nice and cool thanks to thick sandstone walls.Stegemann: What I really like is the distinct atmosphere that an old house provides. Theyre cozy all by themselves, without you having to do anything to make it happen.Bender brought the ochre-colored Sderhamn sofa from IKEA with him when he moved into the house seven years ago, as well as the Persian rug that was an heirloom from his grandmother. Stegemann designed and built the mountain-shaped lamp on the wall herself.Had there been much renovation work done in the past?Bender: About nine years ago, our landlord did a basic renovation. Last year everything apart from the pipes and wiring was redone in a major refurbishment. We took the opportunity then to install a new kitchen unit. It was a mega upgrade from the previous work when they had just put in hardware store OSB boards that were screwed together and had no cabinet doors, and all fitted with electric appliances found in the attic.That sounds crazy! What was important to you when designing the new kitchen?Stegemann: Firstly, that it had closed cupboards. We planned the new kitchen together with the guys from Parallelwerk, a young company from the town of Bad Kreuznach. We had a very clear idea in mind right from the start: Fenix surfaces, no high cabinets, overhead lighting, a recessed stove, and a wooden worktop which we hope will soon take on a beautiful patina.And the yellow cabinetry?Stegemann: We chose yellow since the adjacent kitchen door frame was gray. All shades of gray and black were out then, but I didnt want white either. Apart from green, blue, and red, yellow was the only other color available in the brands linebut it harmonizes wonderfully with the wooden floor and the white walls.Bender: And it goes well with the sofa in the living room, which came out a decade ago with an ochre cover, and which is now a real collectors item!The couple designed the kitchen with yellow Fenix cabinetry in collaboration with Parallelwerk, a young carpentry firm from Bad Kreuznach.How would you describe your style?Stegemann: Lots of wood and rather muted colors. Id say Nordic is a good description.Bender: Maybe retro-Nordic?What furniture piece is at the top of your wish list right now?Bender: The Bellhop lamp from Flos. We already have one, and it makes such beautiful light that you could put one in every room. Id love to have 10 of them.Stegemann: For me, it would be a larger sofa. I dont know yet exactly which onethere are so many I like. But its up in the air because our living room is just too small.The renovation kept the houses original wooden doors.Do you have a favorite spot in your little house?Stegemann: The room under the roof is one of my favorite places. Its amazingly cozy there, especially under the pattering rain. Our guests second that all the time.Bender: In winter, I love sitting in front of the fireplace. With the view into the kitchen, its got its own special mood.Looking to the future, do you think your journey will take you elsewhere, or have you laid roots in Volxheim for now?Bender: This is probably not the last home for us just yet. We miss privacy and having our own garden too much to make it that.Stegemann: For the time being, were very happy in this place. Expect to find us here for a good while then.Peter Bender, who grew up near Bad Kreuznach, has been working as a photographer, cameraman, and director for almost 14 years. From near Osnabrck, Franzi Stegemann has been traveling the world as a model for eight years. Their dog Carla has been a Volxheim roommate since August 2021.A view over the vineyards to the village of Volxheim.The fireplace tiles were laid during the first house renovation nine years ago.The marble-topped wooden chest is vintage. The staircase niche has been made into a wine rack.The bedrooms wooden sideboard is a vintage Danish find from eBay (Even out here in the country, you find such great things online!).The bathrooms checkered shower curtain is from Ferm Living. As with all the doors, this wooden one with stained glass windows is original.Toothpaste, creams, and other items are hidden by a narrow mirrored bathroom cabinet.An attic guest bed is for friends and acquaintances who love to spend time out in the countryside with Stegemann and Bender.Stegemanns workspace is under the roof. Old floorboards serve as a worktop, while a colorful collection of photos, drawings, and sketches hangs on the wall.The young couple shares the courtyard with another family.Along with a passion for the Alps, Bender has a love for bike racing. A few years ago, he and two other friends launched cincincycling, which offers multi-day guided bike tours through the Nahe region vineyards.The entrance hall still has its original tiles. The yellow shoe storage bench is a new addition from Tylko, with the coat rack hanging above it from Maze.The creative couple were interviewed for an article originally published by AD Germany. It was translated by John Oseid.